New Year, New Goals

I have spent the past year trying to fit in to my life a new boyfriend, new courses, and more responsibility at work. I had a roommate, then I was alone and it was the best time for me. Things are no longer the same, my priorities have changed. I know longer drink, I avoid events where this is alcohol, I'm eating healthy, exercising, and for the first time in over 5 months, I have finally cracked my weight, I'm down by almost 8lbs. I'm not going to allow the people around me to fall of the wagon, so to speak, and keep on with this healthy living kick for at least another 5 weeks. My goal is 20lbs. by June 15/12. I made a difficult decision a few days ago and I have to stick with it, that is to get a way from a very unhealthy relationship. I feel it was a codependent one and after months of on again and off again - I needed to make the final move and say enough! I need strength in my higher power to stay away from a few things, but this is a biggy. It is bad and the sad thing is I think I love the person and I need to stop that. Lets see how this works out...